Redefining Leadership: A Women’s History Month Reflection
As Women’s History Month invites us to honor the women who shaped us, this year I found myself reflecting on the leaders who helped me grow into the woman I’m becoming. When I joined Girl Talk as a Camp Counselor two years ago, I worried I wouldn’t measure up since I hadn’t grown up in the program. I expected to mentor Campers and connect with other Counselors, but I didn’t expect the Girl Talk team to become such a defining part of my life. Their support, care, and commitment made me feel seen and valued in ways I didn’t know I needed.
This past summer, I stepped into the Co-Lead role—cautiously at first—and that’s when I met the woman who transformed how I understood leadership: Mika Moaney. Mika showed up each day as her full, bubbly, authentic self, and watching her taught me that I could do the same. Before Girl Talk, I believed leadership had to look bold, loud, and extroverted. Mika modeled something different: servant leadership rooted in humility, kindness, and active listening.
Through her check-ins, encouragement, and steady presence, she created an environment where everyone felt valued. She led by example, not by volume. I can recall one moment in particular: I was so flustered trying to manage a situation where Counselors were struggling with the Camp dance, the classrooms were beyond hot, and the kids were on the verge of going stir-crazy. Seeing my anxiety, Mika met me in the hall and helped me calm down, recenter myself, and create a plan of action to help mediate the situation. Seeing her care for Counselors and Campers with such intention challenged me to explore how I could show up for others while staying true to my quieter personality. As I leaned into my own style—supporting my peers, building trust, and leading with empathy—I felt my connections deepen and my confidence grow. That shift is something I owe to Mika’s gentle guidance and the space she created for me to be myself.
Amanda Gorman reminds us that “there is always light, if only we’re brave enough to see it, if only we’re brave enough to be it.” Mika embodies that light. She helped me see the leader within myself, and for that, I am endlessly grateful.
At Girl Talk, we believe girl empowerment is inter-generational. When women and older peers pass down guidance and positive affirmation, the next generation gain the tools to lead boldly and believe deeply in themselves.
Interested in getting involved at Girl Talk Camp? You can become a Camp Counselor, like Kendahl, (open to leaders in high school and their first year of college) and step into a powerful mentorship role, or register your Camper (ideal for rising 4th-8th grade girls) for an unforgettable summer experience—rooted in leadership, confidence, and girl-led growth.